They can't do that cause they CAN charge more and if you are required to "buy or nothing", what choice do you have?? Well, I know of a choice! Wait until the end of the season. Go to a competition or a practice where they will do it full out and tape it then! Kind of like the photos. You get a zillion of the girls dressed the same and looking the same. But a year later, you only care to have ONE of them, not 10. So if you want to share with grandma or auntie, just do it yourself. They will run thru it more than once at the gym, so you can tape your child alone once, and the entire team once. Trust me... 3 or 4 years down the road, it's a HASSLE to go thru an entire tape of everyone just to find your childs routine. You'll be glad you did it that way.