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RE: What if a gym guaranteed your kid learned a skill? or your money back!


as a former coach and athlete, this kind of guarantee is ridiculous.

as a coach, i busted my butt in every private for every kid i ever taught.  i had one girl in privates for 2 years, never got a backhandspring.  by the end of the 2 years, she had straight cartwheels, perfect handstands, and a bridge kick over, which in and of its self was an accomplishment for her!  i had to pull out all the stops for her, manipulating mats, lines, hand prints, etc.  but let me tell you, when she finally kicked that bridge over by herself, her face was priceless!  i had another girl, also for 2 years, who only took 6 months to get a backhandspring, but struggled a little with tucks.  threw her head back out of her set and it took about 6 months to break the habbit.  but i refused to move on with her because thats just setting up for horrible (and dangerous) fulls down the road, and her mom understood.  i had another kid who took 2 years to get a handspring, and then got her tuck almost perfect, by herself, in 1 month. 

my point:  every kid is SO different, that there's no way to make such a guarantee.  not to mention, any coach who would, would be irresponsiblly pushing some kids into forming bad habbits that are a cause for ugly and dangerous tumbling.  (i'm a stickler for basics and technique- it makes the hard stuff so much easier.)

as an athlete, i'm a chicken.  a BIG chicken.  i am (or was..) an all around level 5 athlete with a gymnastics background.  when i first started at motions, i had very pretty layouts, but no full.  it took a little over a whole year, with nelson spotting me almost every day of the week, out of the same corner, for me to finally throw it by myself.  (i closed my eyes when i ran when i first competed it because it wasn't "my corner.")  i know i know, his fault for actually spotting me for that long, right?  nope.  i was the kind of kid that was so scared that i would just refuse.  i didn't get emotional, "punishing" me didn't work, coaxing me or bribing me didn't work, i really had no buttons to push.  i just wouldn't do it.  nelson was patient, worked with me EVERY day.  not just the days i had practice, but every day.  and finally, my body decided i could do it one day.

my point:  there is a strange connection between the body and the mind, that many people who have never experienced a mental block don't understand.  there is a trigger that says no, and when it does, your body freezes.  and its VERY scary.  many athletes deal with it by forming a mental block that almost wont allow you to perform a skill unless conditions are comfortable.  for me, it was just seeing nelson out of the corner of my eye as i twisted.  for others, its the feel of a hand on the back as they jump, and for some its being in the correct part of the room.  a guarantee could NEVER work for kids like this, for kids who were or are like me.

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Amac wrote:

as an athlete, i'm a chicken.  a BIG chicken.  i am (or was..) an all around level 5 athlete with a gymnastics background.  when i first started at motions, i had very pretty layouts, but no full.  it took a little over a whole year, with nelson spotting me almost every day of the week, out of the same corner, for me to finally throw it by myself.  (i closed my eyes when i ran when i first competed it because it wasn't "my corner.")  i know i know, his fault for actually spotting me for that long, right?  nope.  i was the kind of kid that was so scared that i would just refuse.  i didn't get emotional, "punishing" me didn't work, coaxing me or bribing me didn't work, i really had no buttons to push.  i just wouldn't do it.  nelson was patient, worked with me EVERY day.  not just the days i had practice, but every day.  and finally, my body decided i could do it one day.



Alison, please stop telling everyone about my spotting days.  The kids I coach now are going to start asking questions...



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just tell them we had no mats, or tumble tracks, or trampolines, (or running water biggrin), or really anything except ONE floor, and they'll be so astounded by that they'll forget what they were asking!

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Nelson's a spotter, Nelson's a spotter!

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No way! No such guarantee will ever be..



You are right!

    I am a cheer mom and it sickens me to watch parents of five year olds obsess over the placement, level, and ability of their children. Am I wrong to think that it should still be about fun? If the child has a want to do it and push themselves that is one thing, but I see Moms of these little girls drive themselves crazy to try and make their children the center of attention. They go bankrupt paying for all these private lessons so that they can be sure their child is the main focus. They harass the coaches until they get what they want. It cracks me up to see these parents signing them up for private lessons when most of these teams don't even compete.blankstareblankstarePlease save your money for when they need the privates-like in ten years when they compete at worlds .I know there are over-obsessed parents at all levels, but these are FOUR and FIVE year old girls. They will have ulcers by the time they are six because they are worried that their Mom will be upset if coach moves them from flyer to base etc. I know it does get competitive in the upper levels, but COME ON! If you have nothing better to do than sit awake at night and stress over the position your FIVE year old has on the team--please get a life. Please take into perspective that your child has thirteen more years to be the center of attention. If they were destined to be the best they would have the ability to be the best. Please don't take the fun out for them because of your own selfish need.








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Amac wrote:

just tell them we had no mats, or tumble tracks, or trampolines, (or running water biggrin), or really anything except ONE floor, and they'll be so astounded by that they'll forget what they were asking!



OMG..I will never forget the first time I ever tried to do anything on a trampoline. I learned to tumble in the streets, on the grass and only started taking lessons and competing when my mother was trying desperately to get me to give up Football and Wrestling. My first pit was homemade above ground and about 5 feet deep...a definite safety hazard. My first sprnig floor (besides mattresses) was wood laid over old car tires tied togther Air conditioning...yea right.

Man our kids haver it great compared to my dinosour days.

 



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