sometimes you just have to trust your gym owners and give them a chance to rectify a situation. You know they have the gyms and teams best interest at heart. If your old tumbling coach quit be thankful you have another and give your gym time it is not about just your child or a few children its about the gym as a whole and it sounds like they did the right thing by getting someone at least at the skill level you are at and there are many squads who start out without the high level tumbling and get it just like i am sure the level 4 squad your daughter is on didnt alawys have level 4 cheerleaders at the beginning of the season i am sure things will work out your gym
I CANT BELIEVE THAT SOMEONE IS COMPLAINING ABOUT THEIR GYM WHO LOST A TUMBLING COACH AND REPLACED THEM WITH A LEVEL 4 TUMBLING COACH IS COMPLAINING AT ALL THAT IS SAD BE THANKFUL YOU HAVE A TUMBLING COACH AND YOU GOT ONE ESPECIALLY IF YOUR OTHER COACH QUIT DURING THE SEASON AND I AM ASSUMING THEY DID I FEEL BAD FOR YOUR GYM IF THEY READ THAT POST AND THEY TRIED TO DO THE BEST THEY COULD THEY WILL KNOW IT IS THEIR GYM HOW MANY LEVEL FOUR GYMS LOST THEIR TUMBLING COACH RECENTLY WHAT AWAY TO DAMPEN THE SPIRITS OF YOUR GYM HOW SAD I WISH WE HAD A LEVEL 4 TUMBLING COACH HELL I WISH WE HAD A LEVEL 3 TUMBLING COACH
IT SOUNDS KIND OF SELFISH SINCE THEY PROVIDED YOU WITH A COACH IN MY OPINION
I think that is a very good questions. I would love to hear parents and coaches responses. I have a similar question. My daughter is in a tumbling class were she should be learning her full. Which for the last year or so she has been working on. However her coach has now left and they have replaced him/her with another coach and one of the owners. Mind you the owner is not a tumbling coach and the new coach can only spot/coach up to a layout. I have been waiting it out to see how it turns out but I think I am going to have to go outside our gym for tumbling. Which I don't want to do. Don't you think a gym that has hopes of having a level 5 team and has a level 4 now would atleast have someone to coach these girls through fulls? Even if its just during team practice. What are they going to do when these girls learn it somewhere else and come back and try it at practice? I think that will be a safety issue.
I think you should be grateful that your gym is not trying to proceed teaching skills they can not spot. Losing the tumbling coach may have not been expected and it is great that they have the professionalism to put the child's safety first. If you pay for tumbling with your yearly fees you have every right to ask for a credit for that.
Here is the question you need to ask yourself are you getting the instruction you need for the level you are competing at?
Is it ok to be only working on skills that are at the level you're competing? Don't you want to continue the progress and work on the next level. Just because you are on a level 4 team, why would you just want to be working level 4 skills? If you're ready for the next level I feel that you should be working those skills. How is she going to make the level 5 team if she doesn't have the level 5 skills and she has not been working on them. Just my thoughts. Thank you for all your input.
You are backtracking on your comment now. You stated that the other coach quit and they replaced your old coach with a coach who can only spot up to a layout... your concern was that they want to compete level 5 next season and they wont getto work on those skills and may go outside of the tumbling at your gym and them come back and throw these skills and it will be unsafe! First you are jumping the stinking gun to even know if your gym will be ready for level 5 next season also your gym did the right thing by getting someone in there to at least still teach the level 4 skill so that you can still have tumbling classes. you have no idea what they have planned for the ret of the season and it is bery hard to find coaches and to find tumbling coaches. I say be grateful that you have a tumbling instructor who is able to meet your needs for the time being. Nowe if your gym was a level 5 team now and they didnt have someone there who could spot and teach levle 5 well then that would be a reason to be upset and worried.
And the saftey issue of throwing something they learned some place else is not as safety problem for your gym,. it is a safety problem for you and your family, because your gym is not responsible if your child throws something they are not instructed to so. I am sure that is in your contract
you are putting a ton of pressure and unnecessary worry and concern for a gym that is in mid competition season competing already whe the coach who left and didnt fulfill their agreement to stay for the season for what ever the reasons may be left them.
have a heart and some patience and se how things go
when bad things happen or changes you roll with the punches and regroup the best you can
I'd ask the owners if they have a time frame for getting a tumbling capable of teaching more skills. If there timeframe is lengthy, are they people with the maturity to discuss you taking your child somewhere else for tumbling lessons? Personally, I would not be willing to deep-six my kid's ability to proceed more than a month or so because of gym administrative problems. I'd keep taking tumbling elsewhere and tell your kid not to throw above the level 4 'requested' skills at the gym because it sounds like it would be unsafe. Support your team for the season, be positive and then find a new gym next year. This, of course, if your kid is unhappy also. If your kid is happy, then suck it up because it is about them and not you (unless of course if they are in an unsafe situation.) I am not trying to sound harsh because I have been where you are and so not happy, but the kid was and I needed to get over it myself. But don't make it miserable for the other parents or even your child with your talk about the gym. AGAIN, not saying you do that...also an example from my life. Had a close friend SUCK the life from the most exciting victory we ever had because she was unhappy.
We have more kids tumbing in OUR gym from other gyms in our city. For whatever reason, they need to be at our gym and I know it is NOT because they don't have good tumbling coaches because these other teams ROCK. No one tries to recruit them. Sometimes a kid just works better with a different personality type and I don't think it is disloyal. Disloyal would be dissing your gym in the other gym's waiting room.
THis "advice" is all contingent on your gym owners having a certain level of maturity! If they are loons who would boot you to the curb because they are emotional, well all bets are off!
I think that is a very good questions. I would love to hear parents and coaches responses. I have a similar question. My daughter is in a tumbling class were she should be learning her full. Which for the last year or so she has been working on. However her coach has now left and they have replaced him/her with another coach and one of the owners. Mind you the owner is not a tumbling coach and the new coach can only spot/coach up to a layout. I have been waiting it out to see how it turns out but I think I am going to have to go outside our gym for tumbling. Which I don't want to do. Don't you think a gym that has hopes of having a level 5 team and has a level 4 now would atleast have someone to coach these girls through fulls? Even if its just during team practice. What are they going to do when these girls learn it somewhere else and come back and try it at practice? I think that will be a safety issue.
I think you should be grateful that your gym is not trying to proceed teaching skills they can not spot. Losing the tumbling coach may have not been expected and it is great that they have the professionalism to put the child's safety first. If you pay for tumbling with your yearly fees you have every right to ask for a credit for that.
Here is the question you need to ask yourself are you getting the instruction you need for the level you are competing at?
Is it ok to be only working on skills that are at the level you're competing? Don't you want to continue the progress and work on the next level. Just because you are on a level 4 team, why would you just want to be working level 4 skills? If you're ready for the next level I feel that you should be working those skills. How is she going to make the level 5 team if she doesn't have the level 5 skills and she has not been working on them. Just my thoughts. Thank you for all your input.
You are backtracking on your comment now. You stated that the other coach quit and they replaced your old coach with a coach who can only spot up to a layout... your concern was that they want to compete level 5 next season and they wont getto work on those skills and may go outside of the tumbling at your gym and them come back and throw these skills and it will be unsafe! First you are jumping the stinking gun to even know if your gym will be ready for level 5 next season also your gym did the right thing by getting someone in there to at least still teach the level 4 skill so that you can still have tumbling classes. you have no idea what they have planned for the ret of the season and it is bery hard to find coaches and to find tumbling coaches. I say be grateful that you have a tumbling instructor who is able to meet your needs for the time being. Nowe if your gym was a level 5 team now and they didnt have someone there who could spot and teach levle 5 well then that would be a reason to be upset and worried.
And the saftey issue of throwing something they learned some place else is not as safety problem for your gym,. it is a safety problem for you and your family, because your gym is not responsible if your child throws something they are not instructed to so. I am sure that is in your contract
you are putting a ton of pressure and unnecessary worry and concern for a gym that is in mid competition season competing already whe the coach who left and didnt fulfill their agreement to stay for the season for what ever the reasons may be left them.
have a heart and some patience and se how things go
when bad things happen or changes you roll with the punches and regroup the best you can
I'd ask the owners if they have a time frame for getting a tumbling capable of teaching more skills. If there timeframe is lengthy, are they people with the maturity to discuss you taking your child somewhere else for tumbling lessons? Personally, I would not be willing to deep-six my kid's ability to proceed more than a month or so because of gym administrative problems. I'd keep taking tumbling elsewhere and tell your kid not to throw above the level 4 'requested' skills at the gym because it sounds like it would be unsafe. Support your team for the season, be positive and then find a new gym next year. This, of course, if your kid is unhappy also. If your kid is happy, then suck it up because it is about them and not you (unless of course if they are in an unsafe situation.) I am not trying to sound harsh because I have been where you are and so not happy, but the kid was and I needed to get over it myself. But don't make it miserable for the other parents or even your child with your talk about the gym. AGAIN, not saying you do that...also an example from my life. Had a close friend SUCK the life from the most exciting victory we ever had because she was unhappy.
We have more kids tumbing in OUR gym from other gyms in our city. For whatever reason, they need to be at our gym and I know it is NOT because they don't have good tumbling coaches because these other teams ROCK. No one tries to recruit them. Sometimes a kid just works better with a different personality type and I don't think it is disloyal. Disloyal would be dissing your gym in the other gym's waiting room.
THis "advice" is all contingent on your gym owners having a certain level of maturity! If they are loons who would boot you to the curb because they are emotional, well all bets are off!
I agree don't make thing misersable for everyone else at the gym by talking about it to other parents or in the parking lot like most parents do......... i doubt that it is that serious and if you find some place else for tumbling great then by all means take her to advance tumbling somewhere but your loyalty is to your gym you are at so do so with respect and it is most important to teach our chidren how to handle things properly and bad mouthing or even recruiting others because you are unhappy is not right not saying you are or have done so but your battle is yours and your family only
and honestly come on you know that if your gym is going to be level 5 and the key word going to be level 5 next season they will do what they need to do to get there just like they must have done so far to be level 4
dont worry be happy and enjoy the season its the best part of the cheer season competition time dont sweat the small stuff
OMG... please.... one little request. Please use periods. It's tough reading all that as one giant sentence. Silly request with a big impact......
My eyes hurt now.
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